Discovering me: Christianity and human sexuality

I've struggled to entitle this post because on one end I want to be as direct as possible but on the other, I know it seems controversial and some may judge my intention from the word go. Too long we have listened to what the world has to say about our identity in this area in particular, that if I we're to say that God is the one who gave us our sexual desires, I'd be welcomed with awkward silences. Silent uproars because that sounds almost like heresy. Aren't there other aspects of Christian identity to talk about? Yes, there are. But leaving this part to the world to dictate what we believe about ourselves has only left us with a torn sexual fabric as the church.

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Discovering me: Manhood Part 2

If anyone asks for wisdom, he shall receive it. I really have seen this true in the 'Discovering me' series. God has really used the guest writers to give us insight on matters identity and what He says about us. I hope you've been taking some time to genuinely seek Him on the truths shared weekly. I wouldn't want you to read and just go away saying "good job guys!" What is most important is that we undergo heart transformation that will produce behavioral change! This week the brief biography of the guest writer has been written by Bensolo (he contributed to last weeks post Discovering me Manhood Part 1 ) So here's Discovering me Manhood Part 2. :)Read more


Discovering me: Manhood Part 1

Bensolo Baraka is a young man after God's own heart.  Well, that's how I'd describe him in one sentence. If I were to say more, I'd probably add that his passion for life is evident in his determination and diligence at work, as well as his frequent outdoor adventures climbing mountains. He doubles up as an uncle to (his favorite niece) Joy :) Hehe! {He's the uncle I quoted here in the introductory post to this series} Since childhood, he's inspired me in many ways; perhaps he's the reason why I love reading novels. Recently, we had a discussion about Biblical manhood and I knew that the wisdom he had needed to be shared!

Men..where are you? Ahuu! This and next week's posts are specially dedicated to you!Read more


Discovering me: Slay the giant of insecurity (Part 2)

A sweet friendship refreshes the soul. 007 is today’s guest writer and she is an amazing friend of mine. In fact, more like a sister to me. She is among life’s treasures to me for her gentle honesty, constant support and reassuring presence. I believe she’s given us nothing short of that in this article. Giving her personal testimony of her journey in discovering herself, her vulnerability offers great insight to the practicality of dealing with the giant of insecurity. She’s really poured herself out for us, hence we edited it all into two articles. Today, you shall receive the second part of her contribution to the Discovering me series following the first part that was posted yesterday.


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#6: Let me Break it Down

Okay. So I talked about my low self esteem affecting my social life, academic life, spiritual life and mental health.

I was in the pursuit of high self esteem, but my search has led me to my identity in God which points me away from self to God.Read more


Discovering me: Slay the giant of insecurity (Part 1)

A sweet friendship refreshes the soul. 007 is today’s guest writer and she is an amazing friend of mine. In fact, more like a sister to me. She is among life’s treasures to me for her gentle honesty, constant support and reassuring presence. I believe she’s given us nothing short of that in this article. Giving her personal testimony of her journey in discovering herself, her vulnerability offers great insight to the practicality of dealing with the giant of insecurity. She’s really poured herself out for us, hence we edited it all into two articles. Today, you shall receive the first part of her contribution to the Discovering me series and subsequently, the second part tomorrow morning.

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Discovering me: Spiritual narcissism

Discovering me Part 2 is here and today we're doing it a little bit differently. :) A podcast! Do have a listen. Below is a transcript of the podcast conversation with RuthPearl about Narcissism to help you follow along.

http://www.buzzsprout.com/130166/577723-spiritual-narcissism-podcast-conversation-with-ruthpearl-mp3.mp3


In her own words, RuthPearl(RP) describes herself as a Strategic Communicator, Storyteller as well as an Evidence Enthusiast. What I'd add to this is that her enthusiasm for life coupled with her depth of knowledge makes her a lady any young girl would look up to. Countless times, she sheds light on the areas no one is willing to speak about and this boldness is something worth writing home about.Read more


Discovering me

This year has been a very interesting one for me, although it’s not over yet. From being at home for more months than I have been in school (due to the Kenyan doctors & lecturers strikes, elections and University of Nairobi things :/ ) , to having some of my most memorable moments. Seasons have come and gone, but I can say I am grateful for one thing I have learnt/I’m still learning about. Identity. Society defines me in so many ways. Daughter to…, sister, medical student, musician, blogger etc. All those could try summarize what I do but it’s not really who I am.

Amidst several memories of my year, a particular day comes to mind. It was over the August election period and I was at home. As I sat in my room, I wondered why I was feeling the way I was feeling. I was crying, but I didn’t know why. I felt so lost and was at wits end. Read more